Doomed

It is my credence that we as humans are mere test subjects for a superior plan of world supremacy for a civilization that is equipped for the right time to not necessarily annihilate the human race but control us with the click of a button. We have been programmed and computerized down to a science. Because we are diverted by the baloney fed to us we will never surpass this elite group of men and women.

I’m interested in the alleged Concentration Camps in America however I can’t seem to find a credible site to give me more info on these findings. Any of my smart FB friends know anything about this and or how can I find accurate and factual proof of these camps?

Music will you Marry Me?

I can understand the reasoning in an artist being discouraged to continue their art when it doesn’t seem to be recognized in their own home (city), however the question comes… “What were you really doing it for?” I personally feel that it’s unfair for you to hold your talent captive just because some people don’t appreciate it. What about those that do appreciate it. If a lot of artist decided to throw in the towel because their music was rarely getting recognized we wouldn’t have such beautiful Genres such as Blues, Rock, Soul, R&B, Contemporary and etc. (Frankie Beverly and Maze are GREAT examples) Those genres have stood the test of times because ARTIST NEVER STOP making those types of classics. To me that separates the dynasties from the fads.  So before you think about unplugging the cord to the mic, or closing the guitar case, or covering the piano keys, think about the legacy of music. Think about how far music has come. Think about the songs our ancestors use to sing (all races). Think about what it has done for you. Think about how you would feel if your favorite artist decided to throw in the towel. Some of us have a talent that can’t be taught or bought. It was a reason it was bestowed upon you. So if you birthed it…. Let it live.

~Kia Flow

“You should have married music, Her melody echoes through your veins, Your souls are compatible you’re one in the same, Her very temple set your soul to flames. And the love in your hearts is hers “

~Seven Soul Jones

Cuming Up in the Game

#RANDOM: I have noticed that the porn stars of today are starting to take better care of their appearance in these films. The hair styles are on point (so much so I actually took a still shot of a scene and printed it out to show my beautician the style I wanted), their nails are fly, make up #BEAT, no crochets and stuff… Yeah I’m proud of the billion dollar business. They are finally doing something with all that money they get.

The Hype Aint Right

I can’t help but wonder what will be the demise of this human race/civilization this time around.  I think about that phrase that says “We are the microwave generation.” We want things done fast and right now and we want everything at the click of a mouse. I listened to a piece yesterday by Lauren Zuniga titled “Energy Drinks” and it just put so many things into prospective for me. I think one day we will just be too tired to do anything and we may just “sleep” away. (I’m thinking too deep over here, feel free to bypass this post if you need to). But she was talking about how we need energy boosters in order to stay awake or function, but she questioned “Why are we so tired?” We are doing nothing more than what our ancestors did. We work, we play, we reproduce and we die. Just as our ancestors did, so why are we so tired? I think that we mentally drain ourselves with the notions of the right now and when the right now gets old we go to the next new rave. We have completely blocked out natural life and filled our mind with falsified beings and ways of living that cause us to either go broke, lose our mind or death.

#SELF.DESTRUCTION.WE’RE.HEADED.FOR.SELF.DESTRUCTION

Ol Grand Aaaahhh

Is it me or does it seem like the people who always say “Oh you think you better than somebody” or “They done got grand nah” are the ones………. Not really doing anything with themselves?

And wouldn’t it be fair to say that as long as a person continues to settle or be stagnant in their situation they will ALWAYS think that the person that is actually applying themselves is “Trying” to act grand or be better than somebody?

Shouldn’t EVERYONES ultimate goal be to “Be better” and “Go for the Grand?”

Inspire You, Let Me Please

Remember no one can make you let go. Until you are ready to release you will forever hold on. Now whether that issue/person/thing are worthy of holding on to is your call. Just know sometimes….. It’s ok to let go……..

My uncle Jermaine always told me "Don't take it personal, take the bitter witht he sweet, easy come, easy goes"

Sometimes you have to leave well enough alone.... Ijs

Checkin on ya man huh?

Yal know I always have a story for yal right? Well this one has inspired me to write a poem about Social Networking and Insecure Females… Be on the lookout for my #NEWSHYT

Anyway! So I’m on twitter, getting my tweet on. I responded to a tweet from a guy and not getting in too much detail (because this post will be longAF) but basically we made each other’s acquaintance via Twitter. No biggie righ...t? Well I guess his boo thang saw it and didn’t like it, so she wanted to try and “Check” us. So I responded by saying something like “On this week’s episode of when relationships meet twitter”, so then she was like “uh huh now back to your regularly scheduled program”, so then he was like “well I guess the queen has spoke”, so then I was like “oh that’s fine but just know I got mine, besides this is twitter #IMNOTTHIRSTY”. So no more interactions at that point, but then I saw the chick was sellin out on her TL without mentioning me (Smart move).

So now we’re here. Ladies if you have to check your man’s post, tweets, emails or text in order to feel secure, you are sad, lost, dumb, tired, stupidAF, hopeless, confused, lost, insane, thirsty, foolish, twisted and just BAD OFF like a mutha. A true genuine relationship doesn’t have room for all that because it’s too busy reaping the benefits of love, honesty, respect and blah blah blah. Some of yal need to examine your relationship statuses a little deeper than clicking a button on FB and such.

~Kia Flow

They're Not Racist You're Just Stupid

This is just my personal opinion (duh). I do acknowledge that racism is still prevalent today, but I think that some of the things “us blacks” deem as being racist is really just stereotypes and truth be told……….. WE DO THE SAME DAMN THING. Case and point: I went out with a friend and her friend. The friend was trying to get the waitresses (white) attention but didn’t know her name. So she said “I... should say hey Molly, come here please” and I was like now what if she said “Ok Jaqueta, I’ll be there in a min.” So then she was like oh I’ll curse her out and blah blah blah (typical black ppl response).

I guess I just hate the fact that a lot of blacks are so quick to call a white person racist over a sometimes OBVIOUS Stereotype, but we do the same thing. Although ppl want to get pass the color barrier, I doubt that will ever come (unless all the races continue to reproduce with one another forming a new race). Embrace who you are and show no shame. Those that can’t except it/you are not worthy of your time. But don’t be so quick to point the finger before examining yourself first.

QOD

Question of the Day: Do you think it’s appropriate to stick to the phrase “If it ain’t broke don’t fix it” when it comes down to long term relationships without marriage, or do you think that after a certaint period of time the adult/mature thing to do is to go ahead and tie the knot?

Don't be a FB Thug

Before you think about getting into an argument on FB please do the following steps.

1. Review the case

2. Look over the testimonies and evidence

3. Make an educated/calculated decision

WE need to stop putting our energy into BS and let pointless/meaningless things go.

Simple Me

I’m starting to get like my grandma when it comes down to receiving gifts. I’ll ask her what she wants for her Birthday or Christmas and she’ll say “just give me a toaster, or an ironing board.” When someone ask me what I want for my bday Imma say “Some damn groceries”

Mr. Knickerbocker

Hey Mr. Knickerbocker boppity-bop.
I like a the way, that you boppity-bop.
with your mouth

Yeah! :)

Jacksonville Fl (My City)

Did you know that I can find something to do EVERYDAY/NIGHT of the week in Jacksonville FL? If you can’t that means you are either not diverse and like your current environment (which there is nothing wrong with that…… I think… O_o) or you are diverse, you just don’t hang around the appropriate group of people. For those who are interested in finding new things to do in the city besides, clubbing ...when night falls or catching a movie, pick up a Folio Weekly or EU. They are filled with many spots that you, your family and your friends can hang out at or explore. Anything from Theater, to Outdoor Movies in the Park, Live Bands, Museums and Amazing Restaurants.

There are also websites that you can check out (what-a-ya-know I can’t think of any right now). I’ll ask my FB friends to chime in and help some of yal lost souls out!

#EXPLORE

Pessimist

I’m sure this may not be new to everyone, but I find that people who are usually angry, rude, have bad attitudes or who are pessimistic generally are not happy with their lives. I guess I can’t see a point or purpose in behaving in such a way unless you are just pissed at the cards you were dealt and or you don’t know how to play your hand. My good friend Jessica stated in the post I made about th...e Blacks and Stereotyping, that usually the individual’s surroundings or situations they place themselves in normally contributes to this sort of conduct. If you’re obscured to deep in junk and mess (a term my former pastor use to say) that you can’t see the light which is available to you as well as everyone else, you may need to climb through or knock the debris out the way (change your situation) so that you can get the light that is rightfully yours. JTM

Im Lame

As a child Norman Connors – Starship and Rose Royce’s – Love Don’t Live here Anymore & Wishing on a Star use to scare the monkey fart out of me. I mean like I would cry whenever I heard it on the radio and I was raised by my grandparents so you know I heard it often (Solid Gold Soul AM 1400 before The Light Gospel Station). Now those are 3 of my all-time fav old skool cuts.

LMAOATTPIUBAPOWRGIATITTCHTNOY!!!!

LMAOATTPIUBAPOWRGIATITTCHTNOY!!!!

LAUGHED MY ASS OFF AND TRIED TO PICK IT UP BUT A PACK OF WILD RACOONS GRABBED IT AND TOOK IT TO THE COURT HOUSE THAT'S NOT OPEN YET

Brainwashed Big Time

My last post just made me realize how brainwashed we “blacks” are on EVERYTHING. But the thing I hate about realizing that fact is the fact that I become angered, and I pride myself on being a happy, optimistic individual. So it makes me wonder can I ever just be DEEP or DOWN TO MY ROOTS without being angry, because the fact is, when the truth is presented I begin to see the world much more differently and I realize that the world is so eff’d up. Not made for people like me. People like me basically GO ALONG TO GET ALONG, because we don’t like conflict. But the truth is I’m sad for the youth, I’m sad for these so called parents, I’m sad for the poor, I’m sad for the lost. But I feel STUCK!

Your environment and situations depict your character and perception of things, circumstances and solutions. I remember Adi Hamilton posted a pic of a lady in the grocery store. She was shopping in sweat pants, tennis shoes and an oversized shirt. What stood out was the sweat that formed under her butt cheeks that was present on the back of her pants. I saw comments such as “Oh she dirty” or “she sweaty and nasty” or “her ***** prolly stank” and blah blah blah… However I took 1 look at the picture and said “Oh it’s simple…. THE LADY JUST CAME FROM THE FUCKIN GYM!”

People kill me sometimes!

I'm happiest when I'm on the stage and that's where I want to be. I find peace and solitude when I'm speaking/singing to the masses.

It's time to turn the heat up!

Awkward Moment

That awkward moment when a piece of chocolate falls down your shirt and you reach in there to get it and eat it and your boss walks pass… O_o

I ain't sensitive

WOW!!! I just had a guy tell me I’m not sensitive enough!! O_o I was not offended at all because this is something I know, but now I’m here: Do I change who I am for an individual, or do I stay the way I am? I’m not opposed to either just want to know what other people would do in that situation. So I guess this would be my “Question of the Day”

All Yal Ragaly

Jus like there are a lot of women out here with kids there are men that prolly triple that number. Jus like women wear the weaves and make ups covering the natural beauty there are men that cover up with their purchased materials also (car, clothes, gadgets). Don't for one minute think that a lot of us aren't lost in the glam we. See on tv and hear on the radio. In my book no one is better than the next if you're putting on a front. Ijs

Colonial Penn

These Colonial Penn commercials always have my undivided attention....

Change?

I’m currently in search of something different in my life. For some reason the word “Change” keeps plaguing me and I think it’s bigger/deeper than just cutting my hair or shedding some pounds or moving to another part of town. I have always been an individual that hated being complacent. I think that if a person finds themselves bored with their day to day rituals at that point it’s time to make a change.

ha!

Tumble Weeds

Lately there has been something going on in my life…. Or shall I say NOT going on in my life which I find unusual. I mean no matter what avenues I search it just never happens. Not sure what is going on with The Kid but tumble weeds are passing through my garden in numbers I have not seen in a long while. I think I am having a mid life crisis and I need help.

I wonder what could I do to rectify this issue…..

The Evil Monkey wants this Monkey

TLC

Ha! Someone just told me how TLC I was and I was like huh? TLC? And he said Crazy Sexy Cool… #BOOM

That’s me, I’m claiming it! It’s mine! All day! All night! Byron Long! Betty Wright! 1 bed, 1 pillow, 1 remote, 2 shots! 2 cccchhhhhaaaaiiiinnnssss!!!

The Disrepect and The G for a Grandma

Flashback: 13 yrs old. I was getting "flip" at the mouth with my grandma. So she started fussing at me and I said something smart. All I remember is being at the edge of the steps and the only thing that kept me from falling was my grandma's hands around the neck line of my shirt! She said girl if you ever disrespect me again I WILL KILL YOU!

I've been a good girl ever since

Mississippi the City

Haha! John P Kee said he was going on tour or something and that he was looking for some cities to go to.... This lady said...... Wait for it.......

Mississippi!!!!!

#DEAD

Massachusetts

I can't pronounce Massachusetts

I always say Masa-2-shits

Or

Mastra tu Shrits

O_o

Deepness

Life has been my biggest self help book. Life and actual interactions with people. I learned a long time ago to heed the warning signs placed in my path and use my mental compass to direct my path in the right direction. I pay attention to details and make many "Note to Selfs" for easy references.

Sn: Sorry if I offend people in the things I say or post but I wouldn't be true to myself if I kept it inside because of who I might offend.

The Trainer Man

Part 1: I went to work out with a trainer yesterday at my gym. We did a few routines that really put a burn on certain parts of my body #GREAT, but there was one in particular that made me raise my eyebrow just a smidge… I was doing sit ups and he (the trainer) used the exercise ball to hold my feet. He sat on the ball facing me to keep the ball steady #COOL. The thing is every time I came up…….. His balls were in my face!!!! I mean is that wrong? I mean he didn’t smell or anything but yeah…. Nuts were inadvertently (?) in my face yo! #ATALOSSFORWORDS

He was also talking about how I had a strong stature, and how I was bow legged, and that I was pretty but too young, and he could tell I had a smart mouth. He then gave me my BMI and other numbers, one being his cell phone number and highlighted all the numbers I should use………. His phone number being one of them…. LMAO and SMH’ing

She wants my body

There’s a lady at my job that I am starting to try and avoid as much as possible. Why? Her compliments! They are just over the top! They are borderline too sexual or just too “Sista-girlish” for my liking. There are the sound effects “mmmmm mmmm mm” or “Awww sookie sookie nah!” Then the rolling of the neck, then her eyes enlarge and the fingers get to pointing and I know when she really likes something because she gets to touching. Then she starts talking about how she was just like me “back in her day” and blah blah blah…. I’m just frightened ok…. Just frightened and I’m shaking inside…