You are such a slut! I don't respect you!

Ladies I learned yesterday that respect is earned, and in our case in order for us to get respect we must wear more clothes, because fewer clothes indicate a lack of respect for one’s self. So put on as many garments as you can because you will get more respect that way.

 

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I am being completely sarcastic in this post. By no means do I feel that a woman deserves less respect from anyone because of the clothes she chooses to wear. Those are teachings that have been feed to us forEVER that basically teach us to place women in categories and treat them according to the materials they posses, or the job they have, or WHAT THEY CHOOSE TO WEAR instead of uplifting all women, making them all feel loved, and beautiful and unique. It teaches hate. It teaches a new form of segregation.

Oh but here’s the kicker! You actually shouldn’t expect much respect when you wear less clothing. You are dead wrong if you do. Under no circumstance should you expect to be respected if you wear revealing clothes. This is BS and we need to stop teaching these practices without actually saying “Don’t respect a woman who wears less clothing.” When you tell a woman that if she doesn’t  dress like a slut then she would be respected by a man, that’s basically telling men not to respect a woman that dress like  sluts. How about you take the time to see if she is a slut. It’s not like you’re in rush anyhow, what do you have to do? Live? That’s about it. Once you inquire about her actual occupation, how about you ask her for her name, then what are her dreams, what is she doing to make those dreams come true. Less clothes shouldn’t mean automatic disrespect.