Communication is the Best Policy

There is a great lack of communication between man and woman today. It seems as if a lot of individuals want some sort of mind reader. This goes deeper than a relationship level, but a friendship level. How can you expect for someone  to be an effective friend if you don’t communicate with them? How can they know what you are going through or how they can help you if you don’t communicate with them? Then there are the individuals that get mad when you ask them too many questions. How are we to build a strong solid friendship if certain parts of your life are omitted because you don’t want to let people in your world? You would much rather go online and vent or put up a front for hundreds of people, half who may not even know or even care who you are, instead of picking up the phone and calling the one’s closest to you. You send people on wild goose chases and get mad when they don’t understand where you are coming from. In order to have a solid relationship you have to build a strong friendship, and in order to do that you have to have a strong source of communication between the two of you. If you meet an individual that you are interested in why not let them in your world. I’m sure it’s not as complicated as you may think it is, and guess what... WE ALL HAVE ISSUES. We have become too lazy and everyone wants things done their way and no one is willing to compromise or sacrifice. A lot of us have allowed social media/networking to operate our lives for us. Some of us wouldn’t know what to do with ourselves without it. Good conversation isn’t dead ok? Try it sometimes. If you have an individual who is willing to be there for you, or even cares about how your day was, or how your family is doing... Tell them. Why be secretive. Just talk! Some people make themselves socially awkward when they don’t have to be, just because they think it’s the best policy. Stop letting of lot of this bad advice change your logical way of thinking.

GM